The Confidence Divide

You know that person that can bullshit an answer with such confidence you actually start to believe them, despite KNOWING they’re wrong? They make absolute statements. They don’t wonder and they don’t ask. Oh, no. They tell you. Even when they are corrected, they barely acknowledge their mistake, before moving on to the next subject with that same surety.

There is a name for these people: lawyers. I’m kidding (mostly).

People who present themselves with this kind confidence are often extroverted. They are also decisive (even if those decisions are rushed or poorly informed). Due to these traits, they often fill leadership positions and enjoy a fair amount of financial success.

Confidence, whether it is warranted or not, can take you places.

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Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem

I have struggled with anxiety and low self-esteem my whole life. It’s hard to feel confident when you’re busy being afraid all the time.

It feels icky to admit that, because I usually try to hide any evidence of it. I know I’m not alone. Most of us have a public persona that we use to ease social interaction. Sure, on the inside I’m telling myself I’m a lazy, stupid, ugly, aging piece of garbage, but that can be easily covered with a smile! Continue reading Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem