The Unglamorous Truth About Self-Care

What if taking care of yourself isn’t all bubble baths and meditation? Self-care is a very popular concept at the moment. Like mindfulness and healthy living, renewed interest in these topics doesn’t mean these ideas are particularly new.

Our desire to be happy and healthy is obvious. There’s always a new diet, face cream, or workout to try. The idea of self-care certainly appeals to me as a mother. I often feel like I don’t have any time for myself. This turns me into a cranky asshole, which makes me feel like a bad mom, which then turns me into a very sad sack.

Pedicures and date nights would be amazing, but moms don’t have much time to focus on ourselves. Childcare is expensive. Time is valuable. Maybe practical self-care looks more like being a good mother to yourself?

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What to Do When You Are Easily Overwhelmed

Guess what I’ve been doing for the last hour and a half? Guess. Did you guess nothing? You are mostly correct. On the outside, I have had the appearance of doing nothing. On the inside, I have been completely overwhelmed by all the things I could be doing.

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Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem

I have struggled with anxiety and low self-esteem my whole life. It’s hard to feel confident when you’re busy being afraid all the time.

It feels icky to admit that, because I usually try to hide any evidence of it. I know I’m not alone. Most of us have a public persona that we use to ease social interaction. Sure, on the inside I’m telling myself I’m a lazy, stupid, ugly, aging piece of garbage, but that can be easily covered with a smile! Continue reading Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem